Okay everyone read my last blog about the snake, right??? Well, I go in the kitchen this morning and I hear something scratching around the refrigerator. I turn off the water to make sure I was hearing right and it kept scratching. I was like what is that?? So, I was scares, but the baby was hungry so I was like the fridge is far enough over that if I have to run out I can jump on that chair over there and then I will scream for daddy edgar, who was asleep. Well, I made the bottle and was giving it to baby and I told daddy edgar about the scratching and he said oh it is probably a rat! I said a RAT or a MOUSE? He said a rat, you know when someone says "ratone" I think of a cat sized rat. He said no a small ratone, so I knew that he meant a mouse. Well, I do not like any kind of animal or insect to be in the house that does not belong there, BUT to hear him say it was a mouse made me think that there are probably no more snakes since their dinner was alive and well. To everyone who is reading: I do not live like these people, but for some reason daddy edgar wants to stay there. It is a 4 bedroom house and there is another couple there and they have a daughter who will be 2 in July (Warning: don't say awww, her nickname is tornado, because she throws everything down she puts her hands on. Her nicknake needs to be hurricane- I think they are worse!) I have never seen a mother NOT control their child, this kid is OUT OF CONTROL!! I do not like for Elisa to play with her because the child likes to hit and push and pull on elisa and her clothes. The mother says nothing! Amazing. Elisa does not hit her back because she has been taught not to hit other kids and I am glad that she is well educated and minds me, sometimes she minds me. Anyway, I told Elisa that I was tired of her getting hit on by this little girl and if she does it again then hit her one good time and she will stop. Please tell me if I am wrong, but I always heard that if someone is big enough to hit someone then they are big enough to get hit back. Unless, they are just learning and the mother is TRYING to correct them. But the mother says NOTHING. I went to translate for her and she let her kid wreck the Dr's office, how embarassing. You know how they have all the magazines really pretty on the tables, well when we left there were none on the table and they probably were all torn up. I hope the secretary did not think my daughter did it. Elisa picked them up and the kid did it AGAIN! I need to talk to daddy edgar and tell him do not let her in my room because I do not want her destroying my stuff. I swear the past 3 days I went home there was something missing, that she had gotten. 1 day it was a bottle, 1 day the nail clippers, 1 day a medicine dropper. Like I said, I do not like living with other people anyway, but when their kids barges in my room and messes up and I have to clean it up, I AM NOT HAPPY. Well, I started telling you who all was in the house; me, daddy edgar, my 2 kids, them and hurricane, and another guy who is really nice, he works with me and he has been my friend since before I even really knew daddy edgar and his cousin shares a room with him. I am going to have to tell daddy edgar that i really want to go somewhere else. I mean if we rent with another man or another couple who actually clean up after their child that is fine, but I am not happy! I was living alone during my whole pregnancy and he would come over and stay with me and then he moved in with me in December, my last month, He wanted to go back to live with them because my apartment was small and he was all alone every night while I was working. I understand he was bored. So, when he left he decided to take us with him. He asks me am I happy and I always say yes, because I am happy with him, but not there. I love him so much and he thinks that if I want to leave it's because I do not love him. What do I do?? (Advice- Advice- please) Man, this turned into a long post!!
Well first off about the raton, snakes, and bugs. Maybe God is preparing you for Mexico living. :) Oh and all mexicans call mice ratons regardless of size. We were at hubbies aunts house and there was a normal size mouse and aunt was screaming and freaking out and yelling raton when I looked I also expected to see something close to cat size. lol And like your hubby told you before bugs in the house are almost unstoppable here, controllable but not completely. That living situation sounds like it sucks, sorry to hear it. My hubby and I have a strong rule not to live with others no matter how small our place has to be for our family. It almost always turns out bad from what we have seen. But you should deff not tell him your happy when your not. One thing is for sure being honest about everything even stuff like this is how marriages last 50+ years. Just explain to him how you feel and see how he takes it. Good luck
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